Tuesday, July 31, 2007

#3

After talking to several "normal" people on the street I have come to the conclusion that my sexual outlook on life is biased heavily. While I feel this is a good thing (at least for me) I am curious what others fantasize about or where interests, hidden or prominent lie. I listed a lot of categories below and would love to have people pick the 8 most interesting ones to them. Feel Free to add your own categories too! I realize that these are real general, we can talk about details later:) What are you into, or would look for more information about?

BDSM
Foot Fetish
Romantic settings
Orgies
Threesome
Foursome
Food Play
Role Play
MILF
Adult Toys
DILF
Oral Sex
Vampirism
Swinging
Public Sex Acts
Polyamory
Exploring Same Sex
Sex in Cars (parking)
Gangbangs
Submission




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6 comments:

Anonymous said...

BDSM
no experience, and some of the things i've heard/read/viewed online go past what i'd have any interest in, but some....maybe. i could see trying it

Foot Fetish
no. never seen the allure

Romantic settings
little experience,but this is a fav fantasy area

Orgies
never say never, i guess, but the gouping and situation would have to be right

Threesome
yea. again, though--grouping and situation

Foursome
not sure...not no, just not sure

Food Play
fun foreplay, maybe, but sometimes messier than it's worth

Role Play
no experience, some good fantasies

MILF
being one or seducing one? fertile ground there (bad pun intended).

Adult Toys
toys are fun, but still trying to figure out way to use Legos in bed! not the sort of thing to fantazise about, but an important part of fantasy

DILF
never run into this term, but is it what I think? never been into age play or sugar daddy stuff--kinda creepy.

Oral Sex
:). but eventually, want something more.

Vampirism
I'm clueless. At least in the sexual sense.

Swinging
maybe curious, but don't think it's likely to be for me. fun to read about/hear about.

Public Sex Acts
how public? odd places, lots of fun. chance of being observed, caught--ok. I can name a couple places i'd like to try it. fun to fantasize about. with an audience giving ratings like the olympics--gotta wrap my mind around that.

Polyamory
some, but the relationship beyond sex is an important part of that for me. maybe sex is the goal, the reason its not just a special friendship, but i think something beyond just fucking is part of it. hard to fantasize about whole relationship, but the idea is still a turn on

Exploring Same Sex
rarely fantasy material, but could be interesting experience. i don't know if it would turn me on or not, but as part of a 3some, maybe

Sex in Cars (parking)
for auld lang syne? not usually--been there, done that, own a bed now.

Gangbangs
how is this different than orgy? the concept isn't one i recall ever thinking about--especially in a positive sense.

Submission
i don't know if i could submit--even if i did physically, mentally i don't think i could. interesting to think about. and being a dom, again--not sure. i doubt i'd be good at that, either. i'd almost rather see if i can submit than if i could dominate, and it surprises me to say that.

too much info? not what you wanted? ask if you want something different/more. tired of me answering? I'll find another hobby :)

Anonymous said...

Well, let's see. I think we've hit a new friendship level!
For me at least, sex is only part of the whole experience. The foreplay leading up to sex is what makes the sex great or not so great! Everything from romantic settings to role playing can change the dynamic of sex. You may be more willing to try new things when you're playing a different role. I think people would want to know about how to get themselves and their partner(s) into the mood and then the sex itself would be more comfortable as well.
So I guess, I'd like to see the 8 categories be romantic settings, food play, role play, adult toys, oral sex, sex games, BDSM and submission. Feel free to ask me whatever questions you'd like as long as it won't make you uncomfortable either. Yeah I know, nothing probably makes you uncomfortable either! See you later.

Anonymous said...

If i have to narrow it to eight:
bdsm, romantic settings, threesome, role play, oral sex, public sex acts, submission, toys.

Anonymous said...

what about erotic photography/taping?

Anonymous said...

hmm, the 8 i would be interested in in some form or another:
romantic settings, orgies (depends on who it is), threesome (again, depending on who is there), role play, adult toys, oral sex, polyamory (i like being loved), and, um, maybe public sex acts (don't think that will happen though).
i'd say vampirism, but i'm not sure what it entails. ;)

Anonymous said...

Oral Sex: I love me some oral sex.

Tantric Sex: This interests me greatly, and it's not on the list, but I am hesitant to purchase anything explaining exactally what it is. From what I understand, they are a set of ideas that help increase the intensity of ones orgasms. Plus there are TONS of shit sex books out there and I am not going to throw down that kind of money if there's a chance that I will be ripped off in any way.

Public Sex Acts: These are always fun in the right setting.

Submission: When someone takes control... well... I melt like butter?

Adult Toys: I like these too.

Threesome: I wouldn't mind having one of these with the right people. I have heard many stories though about bad threeways (when it's just really two people who want to go at it and the third just gets left out of a lot of fun stuff).

Role Playing: Just curious.

MILF: As the dutch say, learn on an old bike.