Wednesday, August 8, 2007

#4- exhibitionism

Tell me, do you like to be looked at? Do you like to look sexy and know people are looking? Do you like to play visual games with your loved ones? Fantasize about people watching you have sex? How about strangers? I know the general stereotype is females don't and males do. but does that really hold? I know I love to be looked at. By strangers, friends and loved ones. each has a limit to where and what the expectations are. For instance I would let a stranger see me in any form, unabashed and eager. However, I would be very cautious about friends though because I would not want to offend any sensibilities they have. loved ones , well I know them mostly well enough to know what they deem fun and appropriate and whats not. I've been partially naked, naked, or had sex on about every level and setting. Some as dares some as stunts all were exciting.



So how far are you willing (and eager) to bare? Think you trump me? Let's hear it!


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2 comments:

Anonymous said...

until fairly recently, the answer was a firm NO, i don't like being looked at by anyone except a lover--and then, in context. Then i knew the view was appreciated and not comic relief or judging me deficient or thinking I'm a desperate would-be slut.

i still think there's a line between appealingly sexy and desperately sluttly--but I regularly wear a couple shirts that a year or so ago I wouldn't have even tried on, so I'm evolving.

In private, though, I'm not particularly self conscious--but not likely to parade, either.

there's more i could say relating directly to sex--but ask if you're interested--i'll email but not share w/ the world.

Anonymous said...

I don't mind getting naked and being looked at by strangers. I do like to look sexy and know that people are looking. I do like to fantasize about people watching me have sex. As far as people I know, well... I don't like to as much. I tend to be more self conscious about my body when there are people that I know around. And I would never, EVER, in front of family... That's just a too weird for me.